This seems so obvious that we wouldn’t have to mention it, but yet we see it time and time again – single guys, and the occasional couple, who post/send up-close-and-personal photos of their genitalia, and nothing else. Now don’t get me wrong here. It’s great to have a healthy sense of self. And we’re firm believers of the “if you’ve got it, flaunt it” mantra. But tact and decorum trump here.

If you actually plan on meeting anyone in this so called lifestyle, lead with your best foot. And if your cock is your best attribute, you can certainly allude to it. Even post a full body picture where that’s the focal point. But a detached penis or vagina is, well, just not sexy. Not to say that you won’t get any interest that way, but the overwhelming majority of players will write you off. Any floating genitalia emails we get are deleted post haste.

We’re all here for the same reason, but class and style will get you much further than a close up of your throbbing manhood. To you it may say ” I have a big dick”, but to most of us out here it says “you are a big dick”. *Grin*